We all live in a competitive and progressive world where people don’t have time to talk and spend time with their loved ones. Every participant of this rat race often realized that they would get nothing! Money is not the only thing in this world. Money can buy several things but it can’t buy true love, real happiness and memories. Trust me people need to remove the blindfold from their eyes that money is everything! Money will make you dance to its tune but at the end of the day the rat race grows stronger and it increases in length! With more number of participants, its hurting the way of living. Earlier people who used to spend some quality time with their family are now finding it difficult to spend even 5 minutes. Their mind is constantly bombarded with too many stuffs that includes office pressures, performance issues and many more. He wants to be at the top. Everyone would be happy if you reach the apex! But there would be certain sect group that would not be able to digest your success. At one point of time, even if you attain success at a short period of time, these pair of bemused eyes will never stop haunting you.
Healthy competition is something that I would appreciate but unhealthy competition doesn’t sounds soothing to the ears. I am choosy when it comes to making friends. Not that I am judgmental but I avoid inviting unwanted troubled. My past has been disastrous where I have lost several true friends and I myself have stayed away from backstabbers and betrayers. People should learn to get inspired from table toppers! No one should be jealous of others achievement. Others have reached the zenith only because of their struggles and talent. As I always say, the road to success is full of stones and pebbles. It is a rocky road and you have to go through various kind of struggles to ensure that you cross this rocky road.
Trust me it takes a big deal to make good friends. Good friends are like an asset these days. It is hard to find a true friend with whom you could share all your secrets and personal matters. But there are few who pretend to be your best friend but have another face of a python! Beware of such people. They will hurt you and by the time they unveil their true colors you would already be broken and shattered. Would you want to be filled with remorse? I bet no one would ever want to. That’s why I always say that don’t trust anyone blindly. Dual faced people often have a different motive behind their every actions. And there are few who can’t take your success and achievements and talk behind your back. Its obvious that such people can only talk behind you back and that’s why some of them stay behind. They should open up and have the guts to say the same thing in front of you. Your absence is something that pleases them because that’s when they have ample time to talk about you to someone else. However hard it is but avoid such people from your life Never pay heed to backstabbers. But always be cautious. They only deserve your back. Look ahead and continue walking on the success path. Their curses will backfire on them! Trust yourself and believe in your abilities and capabilities and move ahead in life. Why would you even waste some precious time of your life by paying attention to them!
How would you feel when you know that one day your trust is betrayed? Never let this ever happen. Establish a small group! Keep this group to yourself and trust me it is too difficult to identify betrayers and backstabbers. You never know that even your best friend could betray you; you don’t need an enemy. Your enemy will hurt you in front of you , but backstabbers in form of people close to you will hurt you behind you and by the time you identify them, you would be disheartened! Stay blessed and have an amazing Thursday!
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